Long story short, my dad is getting old. He's now in his mid 70's, and still easily the meanest, angriest, most resentful old bastard you will ever meet. He's fiercely self reliant. Me and him don't always get along, and he doesn't really listen to much that I say.
My sister called me yesterday, saying that she is trying to move out of state soon, and wanted my opinion. She lives with my dad, and said that recently his health has really gone downhill even more than it has the past 2 years. He doesn't leave the house, and I don't trust him to drive any more. This is all sudden to me, cause it wasn't until about 3 years ago that he was no longer able to beat my tail into the dirt. She mentioned trying to get him into assisted living or something of that nature. I know for a fact that he would rather die at home than anywhere else, and won't have any of that. He refuses to see doctors, as they are all "liberals that want your money and do their best to kill you off", and would rather die than have someone take care of him.
I'm not too sure what to do. He recently started having to wear depends, and can't take care of himself too well. I could really use some words of advice.
My sister called me yesterday, saying that she is trying to move out of state soon, and wanted my opinion. She lives with my dad, and said that recently his health has really gone downhill even more than it has the past 2 years. He doesn't leave the house, and I don't trust him to drive any more. This is all sudden to me, cause it wasn't until about 3 years ago that he was no longer able to beat my tail into the dirt. She mentioned trying to get him into assisted living or something of that nature. I know for a fact that he would rather die at home than anywhere else, and won't have any of that. He refuses to see doctors, as they are all "liberals that want your money and do their best to kill you off", and would rather die than have someone take care of him.
I'm not too sure what to do. He recently started having to wear depends, and can't take care of himself too well. I could really use some words of advice.