I wouldnt listen to anyone here with over 10,000 posts about scoring.........
You say that, but from this list:
10k Plus Club
BadgeBunny - 23,947
J.P. - 20,271
Glock'emdown - 17,303
NikatKimber - 16,103
Wizard - 15,579
dennishoddy - 15,036
dustingaunder - 14,594
OldFart - 14,524
bulbboy - 14,466
Glocktogo - 13,653
jbarnett - 12,804
Soulman - 12,561
GMThunder - 12,531
POSITIVEDISCONTENT - 11,334
264Magnum 11,203
Keelty - 10,982
stepper - 10,694
olyeller - 10,118
Many are married, and married quite well. Others have plenty of, er, experience with just that. After having met, or had many serious conversations with most of these members, I wouldn't throw out their advise on a whim.
I'd say your comment is mostly jealousy. And bitterness. But that's just going from what you've had to say in the past.