I get it, no problem. I have daughters, too. I want them to make the best choices, at all times. I am not sure best is the correct word. I think easiest maybe better. We want our kids to have a better life than ours. Therefore, we don't want them to pick the most difficult path to follow. Even if that path makes them a better person than we are.
Well. I am white, and her mother is Mexican. I am still married to her mother. I won't go down this road again, tlblawton, it has caused me much grief.